jay_a2j wrote:Whats more disgusting? Forgiveness or a "Christian" that supports abortion and "gay rights"?
(Don't bother answering, it was rhetorical )
Well, I will anyway.
The most disgusting and harmful is to distort Christ's message to one that is more restrictive even than that of the Pharisees that he admonished.
Regarding abortion, I realize you wish to believe that it is murder. The problem is that this does not come from anything in the Bible. In fact, the old Testament makes quite clear (and the new Testament does nothing to dispute) that unborn children are NOT the same as born children. The law differs in their preception and treatment. It is science, not religion that made the change.
The old Testament makes many references to a child "breathing life", etc. The law makes a distinction between harm to the unborn and the born. It is not the Bible that tells us to consider a child in the womb as human life, it is, ironically enough science. It is science that tells us that no, life doesn't just begin at birth, there is a living, feeling human being at 7 months. One who may not be able to fully thrive outside the womb, but a child who can hear and feel. However, science also shows us that 1 in 3 pregnancies will end before the third month. Science also allows us into the word of knowing before birth that some children will be born so deformed that under old Testament law, they would be condemned to live outside of real society. We have moved beyond that, but, again, through science. Christ began people toward thinking that disease is from external forces, reminded us of Job, etc. However, it was not until biology taught us of microbes and bacteria that most people began to truly separate the idea of sin from illness. Even now, many still attach the two.
Interestingly, they don't make a distinction for damage, but they absolutely do for death. Specifically, is someone strikes a pregnant woman and that child is born without an arm or a leg, then the person shall pay "eye for eye", (exactly as for anyone else). BUT, if that child is born still, then there is no penalty. Why? because no one could know that the child would live. This gets back to some old and quite visceral ideas. I can remember being a child on a farm. I knew about "miscarriages", children and animals that just "were not born". I knew it was a very sad thing, but part of God's plan. Then, when I was about 7, one farm had several calves born with serious deformities. I remember looking at one animal, born without a head and being repulsed. I was afraid to touch it, even. My father patiently explained that it was "not catching", explained something about a "bad bull" (we did not know details, but had the vague idea that males and females were required for young). He probably even used the word "semen", though it would not have had much reference to me then. That deoformity hit me in a way no death ever did. It was just
wrong. I did not see God's hand in it, not really. As an adult, I see it like a child getting hit by a car or other tragedies.
Now, what you may not realize, maybe do, is that most of those old laws regarding sanitation and "purity" really amounted to quarantine. People were not able to worship, because to have them in amongst the body would have made everyone sick. They had not knowledge of bacteria, pathogens. They DID know that in many cases, these things were "catching". So, this was codified into religious law. Christ came and gave us a different message. He essentially started people along the path to consider that there was something else involved. He reminded us of Job, that evil things like pestilance were not result of the person doing evil, but were the result of the presence of evil in society, amongst humanity.
The biggest change, however only came with advent of biologic knowledge. Only when we began to really understand that diseases came from bacteria, etc did we really and truly move away from this idea that illness=sin. Some people still cling to portions of that. And yes, it is complicated.
Now, here is the other part. You have to distinguish between early abortions and later ones. I agree that too many women take too lightly the idea of an early abortion. However, I also know what happened when abortion was made illegal. The truth is it harmed a good many lives. Letting abortion be legal is not about "promoting" or "encouraging" abortion, it says 2 things. First, that the primary means of control need to happen elsewhere, outside the halls of law. Kids need to be taught real and true sex education, THEN they have fewer abortions, fewer incidents ov STDs, etc. You can claim this is untrue, but check the facts. The teen pregnancy rates were DECREASING up until very recently. They began to rise again in those places, and ONLY in those places that advocate a non-education called "abstinence only". The truth is that any real sex education is designed to encourage
abstinence, to encourage safe and sane choices, which do not mean getting pregnant at 16 in our society. (in our great grandparent's day 16 year old girls often got married to also young husbands who could get decent paying jobs, so that is why the "our society" clarification).
A law, by contrast, simply moves abortions "underground", into unsafe venues, into "back room" shops where the death rate used to be very, very high. Ironically enough, they often even occured later than is now allowed. The truth is that legalizing abortion was NOT about killing children, it was about saving mothers.. mothers who could reform, mothers who could go on to have other children, which they would hopefully love, care for and cherish. The so-called "right to live" faction tries to ignore that. They wish to ignore the impact of a law assert that the life of the mother just does not matter, that her full and complete obligation is to have that child, even if it literally does kill her. Never mind that the child is also likely to die, supposedly that is "God's will".
The other situation is much more difficult, but it is difficult for EVERYONE. Older children, who are known to have very serious problems or who are being born by a woman who cannot carry the child without serious risk of harm to herself, those situations, situations such as the one in this article, don't deserve to be lumped with women who think abortion is "just another form of birth control". In many cases, these women fully want their children. In many cases, they have endured a lot to even try to have that child. BUT, they also know that not every child is born whole, is even born to anything we would call ar real life.
You want to bring out the "God's will" dictum, then do it both ways! Then don't have surgery, don't allow any medical intervention. You cannot have it both ways. You cannot accept the grace and wonders of science, medicine and yet deny responsibility for the other side.. the side that says sometimes God very much
does choose death. When the life of a child will require surgary after surgary, only to create and existance (I don't say life, because it is no real life!) needing complete care, where there is no chance of talking, of communication, where the child is dead to the world, even if they still technically breath. That is not God's choice, that is arrogance of humanity.
The Roman Catholic Church and the new "Evanglical" conservatives are equally hypocritical in claiming that its OK to accept any and all benefits of medical science, but that this entails no obligation to consider the bad side.. to consider that sometimes God does choose death. If God always chose life, then no child would die. Kids would not die of illness or be hit by cars or anything else. In the Bible, we are taught not to fear death. No, we don't welcome it before its time, but when it is time.. we are to embrace it. A child facing a life of nothing but pain, no hope of anything like what Stephen Hawkins, etc live.. that is not life. In the old dasy, there would be no question. Many children with far, far lessor disabilities would have no chance at life. For that matter, children with even mild problems -- simply being blind, or lacking a limb, etc., were condemned to live outside of society. Science and medicine have allowed us to release these children from their fates. But, the Roman Catholic church would force parents to submit their children to far worse fates because of those same "wonders" of science. That is not wonder, it is terror and horror.
I would never, ever tell someone they had to have an abortion. BUT, I don't feel that I or anyone else has the right to tell soemone faces those horrible choices that I and not they, their doctor and
clergy have the right to decide this.
I myself actually am opposed to abortion. I am opposed because, to me, any shadow of a doubt should be given the benefit. I am only OK with abortion,( and "OK" is not really the best choice of words, just the best I can do) when it is very clear that the child will not have a life, is either already dead, doomed to die or will live in complete pain. However, I also acknowledge 2 further points. First, not everyone shares my religion, my moral values. You , others wish to claim that you are "speaking up for the children" when you make abortion illegal. However, are you really? Get back to the Bible. Which is really and truly the greater harm? Is death really and truly the worst thing that can befall a child? If you beleive that, then I don't believe you have fully read the Bible. The greatest harm is keeping a child from God and making a child suffer.
You can argue that these children are not blessed because their parents are not Christian. Well, if you argue that then you deny anyone who is Christian the right to even have children. We don't believe that, don't accept that in our society. You can argue that you "know better". Well.. it is a dead point. Everyone believes they know better. The point is proof. If you cannot convince someone not to have sex, not to have an abortion if they become pregnany unwillingly or find that the child they carry is facing a life that they don't believe to be a real life, then you don't have the right to proscribe it. This is not a case where there is moral unity. This is a point of serious and severe disagreement. This is a point where loving, caring CHRISTIANS, BIBLE-READING CHRISTIANS all disagree. That there is such disagreement shows you are not standing on the firm high ground you wish to claim. It is YOUR belief, YOUR view, but it is not that of many people.
Laws are not for passing on requirements of YOUR beliefs. Laws are to preserve society, to set boundaries for people of many beliefs and doctrines.
The Roman Catholic church steps well beyond this. You, when you claim that abortion should be made illegal, step beyond it. You may talk within your church. You may discuss and argue in public. But, changing the law, making something illegal because it doesn't meet YOUR moral values is not what this country is about.
and make no mistake, jay. Yes, that debate in the beginning of the constitution was about which Christian church should rule.. should it be the Roman Catholics, should you, not a Roman Catholic be denied the right to live in Maryland? When you open the door to religious rule, there is no stopping. THAT is the point.
You may feel happy if the religious doctrine being put forward happens to match your personnal beliefs, but make no mistake, that will change. The people who fight the most against establishing one religion are other people with religious beliefs, not these "liberal secularists" to whom you like to blame for every evil in this country.