One solution that would help with missing tournament games and with excessive PMs might be to add another tab/link at the top of MY GAMES page that says something like INVITED. Then you get a page where you can see all the settings, etc. of the invited game including if it is a tournament game ...
Team 12 update: assassin07, Vertigo, Woolfman, riskthis
Record 5-5 Won Game 5055705 vs. team 11 - #1_stunna, b00060, iambligh, olkok Lost Game 5055704 vs. team 10 - Aesop Jones, beersurfer, Funkelee, TheOtherOne Lost Game 5055700 vs. team 9 - jielking, JoJo123, snout, xabigerrard Won Game 5055697 ...