Clearly there was some secret diplomacy involved in this case, as noted in previous posts, but I withdrew the complaint my preference was to whoop the cheater in the game, which I did.
Thanks, I appreciate it. To be entirely open and honest, we are friends. I am tryng my best to teach her the game. Clearly she has learned as she beat me. Do you suggest us not playing 1 v 1 to avoid any future conflicts?