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heavycola wrote:
bradleybadly wrote:blah blah blah


lazy generalisations are fun!

You see, conservatives are as delusional as they are selfish. They have all been suckered by the american dream, which basically says you must clamber over your own grandmother, if necessary, to get where you need to be - and where you need to be is in a detached suburban villa, with two lexus cars in the garage, payments to make on three widescreen TVs and 2 spoiled brats they might see occasionally if they could afford not to work. They believe that anyone who needs help doesn't, by definition, deserve it, either because they could have worked harder or because god is punishing them. And they are all armed to the teeth, as is their god-given right, in case they come across any non-whites on the drive back from the tennis club.


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Also, to Coffee Cream and crew - the only thing that annoys me about the fact there is no afterlife/heaven/hell is that we won't get to see the look on your stupid faces when you find out there is no eternal paradise, because you'll be dead and nothing more than a body in the ground/cremated (whatever your preference may be) - The whole notion of living on the planet and considering it a 'secondary' notion, and that you spend your life on Earth trying to prepare yourself to enter heaven as primary is half the reason this planet is gone to shit. Earth is Primary, and should be treated that way. Unfortunately, by many people, it is not considered so.
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radiojake wrote:Also, to Coffee Cream and crew - the only thing that annoys me about the fact there is no afterlife/heaven/hell is that we won't get to see the look on your stupid faces when you find out there is no eternal paradise, because you'll be dead and nothing more than a body in the ground/cremated (whatever your preference may be) - The whole notion of living on the planet and considering it a 'secondary' notion, and that you spend your life on Earth trying to prepare yourself to enter heaven as primary is half the reason this planet is gone to shit. Earth is Primary, and should be treated that way. Unfortunately, by many people, it is not considered so.



Yeah, but it helps keep the price of Carribean cruises down for the rest of us. :)
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radiojake wrote:Also, to Coffee Cream and crew - the only thing that annoys me about the fact there is no afterlife/heaven/hell is that we won't get to see the look on your stupid faces when you find out there is no eternal paradise, because you'll be dead and nothing more than a body in the ground/cremated (whatever your preference may be) - The whole notion of living on the planet and considering it a 'secondary' notion, and that you spend your life on Earth trying to prepare yourself to enter heaven as primary is half the reason this planet is gone to shit. Earth is Primary, and should be treated that way. Unfortunately, by many people, it is not considered so.

First off, what really annoys me is when people go on about how there is no after life when they can't even prove there isn't one. Which brings me to ask, can you even prove that souls don't exist?
Next off, the reason why the planet has "gone to shit" as you said, is because people (not solely Christians or other believers, but in general, though you seem to think that it is almost solely our fault) in general don't want to take personal responsibility for their actions want others to do it for them, in which case, you seem to fit this quite well.
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Well of course it is the greatest presumption to conclude that because there is no evidence of something then it may not exist, on the other hand it makes perfect sense to insist something exists despite their being no proof :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
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joecoolfrog wrote:Well of course it is the greatest presumption to conclude that because there is no evidence of something then it may not exist, on the other hand it makes perfect sense to insist something exists despite their being no proof :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:



DOn;t be so cynical. What is the more likely post-death scenario:

a) An invisible, ethereal part of us breaks free from the cranial machinery that it needs to function on earth and floats away either to a magical place in the sky where our every dream comes true, or to an underground pit filled with fire where, even though we are no longer corporeal, we will suffer in horrendous pain for ever and ever.

or

b) nothing.

I sure know which makes more sense to me.
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heavycola wrote:Some interesting research from Sweden has found 'striking similarities' between the brains of gay men and straight women, and conversely between the brains of lesbian women and straight men.

So there you have it. It's not a choice, it's hard-wired in the womb. Unfortunate for the 10 % of humans whom god has decided to test by asking them to reject one of the most basic impulses.



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waynemgough wrote:
heavycola wrote:Some interesting research from Sweden has found 'striking similarities' between the brains of gay men and straight women, and conversely between the brains of lesbian women and straight men.

So there you have it. It's not a choice, it's hard-wired in the womb. Unfortunate for the 10 % of humans whom god has decided to test by asking them to reject one of the most basic impulses.



do you ever feel broody?

who the hell is 'broody'?
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heavycola wrote:
waynemgough wrote:
heavycola wrote:Some interesting research from Sweden has found 'striking similarities' between the brains of gay men and straight women, and conversely between the brains of lesbian women and straight men.

So there you have it. It's not a choice, it's hard-wired in the womb. Unfortunate for the 10 % of humans whom god has decided to test by asking them to reject one of the most basic impulses.



do you ever feel broody?

who the hell is 'broody'?


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joecoolfrog wrote:
heavycola wrote:
waynemgough wrote:
heavycola wrote:Some interesting research from Sweden has found 'striking similarities' between the brains of gay men and straight women, and conversely between the brains of lesbian women and straight men.

So there you have it. It's not a choice, it's hard-wired in the womb. Unfortunate for the 10 % of humans whom god has decided to test by asking them to reject one of the most basic impulses.



do you ever feel broody?

who the hell is 'broody'?


Last Thursday, that cowboy bar just off Old Compton St :shock:


Ah. yes. :oops:
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heavycola wrote:
waynemgough wrote:do you ever feel broody?

who the hell is 'broody'?


...Like making a nest and laying eggs?
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btownmeggy wrote:
heavycola wrote:
waynemgough wrote:do you ever feel broody?

who the hell is 'broody'?


...Like making a nest and laying eggs?


if you mean, am i ever plagued by strange and unfulfillable avian impulses then the answer is no. This morning at about 4am a starling flew into our bedroom. My wife grabbed it and set it free out of the window while I cowered in anticipation of its desperate flappiness all in my face. I have very little empathy with birds, although the flying around bit would be cool.
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Cola is MARRIED :shock:

Sincere condolences old chap :(
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muy_thaiguy wrote:
radiojake wrote:Also, to Coffee Cream and crew - the only thing that annoys me about the fact there is no afterlife/heaven/hell is that we won't get to see the look on your stupid faces when you find out there is no eternal paradise, because you'll be dead and nothing more than a body in the ground/cremated (whatever your preference may be) - The whole notion of living on the planet and considering it a 'secondary' notion, and that you spend your life on Earth trying to prepare yourself to enter heaven as primary is half the reason this planet is gone to shit. Earth is Primary, and should be treated that way. Unfortunately, by many people, it is not considered so.

First off, what really annoys me is when people go on about how there is no after life when they can't even prove there isn't one. Which brings me to ask, can you even prove that souls don't exist?
Next off, the reason why the planet has "gone to shit" as you said, is because people (not solely Christians or other believers, but in general, though you seem to think that it is almost solely our fault) in general don't want to take personal responsibility for their actions want others to do it for them, in which case, you seem to fit this quite well.

Definitely not solely Chistians. In fact, I am amazed at the number of Christians who are unaware of the many asthetic traditions. In the middle ages, there were monks who put themselves on pedastels so their feet would not trod the microbes.

Now, in reality that extremism is fairly arrogant (exactly how do you get yourself food, etc.) and just plain dumb (not too healthy, among other things). The other side ... that claims that man has the right to basically do as they wish to the earth because the earth is here for us, is also arrogant. MY point is that Christianity, like most faiths is as diverse as the people who believe AND tends to get used as convenient by the earthly/political powers.

This is one prime reason my branch of Christianity teaches us to question what we are tought and to constantly compare it to the Bible and prayer. In what some didactical types see as irony or even hypocracy, we also recognize that our very differences mean that God gives each of us different tasks and even somewhat different understandings. BUT, we all fall into the same framework.

To take a minor example, when I grew up in the west, most people wore shoes in their houses. Now, in the east, I find that most people, including myself (now) do not. One big reason .. snow! Does that mean folks out west are dirty, folks in the east "clean" or the reverse? Some will argue each side. BUT, even the most "hard core" will probably allow their kids to play at a house where the rules on this point differ. Chances are they will go for coffee, if invited ... and act as their host requires.

I don't want to put religious issues on the level of shoes, of course, but ... well, some things really ARE on that level. Many things in the old testament, in particular made absolute sense in the day, but not now.

In a more extreme example, Lepers had to be isolated in their own communities. This seems quite cruel today. Back then, quarantine was the only way folks new to protect themselves. Ironically, if folks keep misusing antibiotics, we may return to those days. Not for lepresy .. we know better how it is transmitted now, but for many other diseases.

Now, what does this have to do with homosexuality? Homosexuality IS listed as a sin in the old testament ... right along with other things like eating pig, and wearing tassles on clothing, that folks just don't consider relevant or important today. It is mentioned briefly, very briefly, in the new testament. On the other hand, lying, taking the Lord's name... and many other issues are listed over and over again as sins.

ALSO mentioned over and over and over again is the concept that we are ALL sinners and ALL subject to falling from grace but for the love of Jesus Christ. You can profess your sins and be forgiven, but if you want to be purely strict about it, the REAL truth is that being without sin is just impossible for human beings. We do the best we can .... and fall short. So, you can either berate yourself and go to extremes ... maybe become a monk/one of the isolationists nuns ... or you can accept that Christ and God love us all, want what is best for us, try to follow his rules and go on.

Homosexuality is being rexamined by many, many churches. Within the church, that is, specifically, whether a homosexual person can be a priest/clergy or can even be a full communioned member is debated. My church happens to accept full communion from homosexuals. There are some ordained pastors, but they cannot be practising thier homosexuality. This is highly debated. There is strong feeling on each side. Some of the debate comes from experience. The fact that almsot every church has at least one or two homosexual members. It is one thing to talk about a homosexual as this harmful and hurtful "thing" when you don't think you know anyone like that ... and something else when you realise that the person who has sat beside you and spoken up in Bible studies is one of "them". In my case, it was only after I had mentioned my anger at the way some people treated homosexuals in the name of Christ that my mother told me the choir director of my childhood church had been gay. Now, that did not mean that homosexuality, in general was accepted. BUT, that is the thing. More often than not, you hear grandious and very repressive discussion of homosexuality in the "remote" as a "hypothetical", yet, in reality, find that people actually do "overlook" or "cooexist" with homosexuality quite fine.

THEN, however, you get those few who take it much further. Hatred exists everywhere. We cannot get rid of it. That is reality. However, there is something beyond irony when someone who professes the love of Christ and stands up using Christ's name tries to say that they are supposed to act in a loving and forgiving manner, but that when it comes to homosexuality ... that means they can be there, but not really be a Christian unless they deny this huge part of who they are.

Things DO change, even within Christianity. They do not change lightly. They should not change simply because society says so. In that, Coffeecream, etc are correct. HOWEVER, in this case it is not a matter of the church bowing to society. It is a matter of the church reviewing the results of their teachings, their actions AND reviewing the tests themselves to see if there are some subtleties that have been missed.

This analysis is similar to that we went through not so long ago regarding slavery. Then, too... aye, even now, you will find many who proclaim that slavery is fully "OK", that the BIBLE declares that the races must be separate, etc. MOST people now, however fully disagree.

Bradleybradley is correct when he said that being against homosexuality is not the same as being racist. Racism HAS fully been proven wrong, to be against God. Homosexuality is still under debate, within the Christian church.

HOWEVER, about one thing there should be no debate. Whatever we do or do not think withing the walls of our churches or amongst the communing body, these rules do NOT apply to the outside world unless there is direct and unquestionable harm. In THAT regard, both Coffeecream AND bradleybradley (though he does not take a Christian perspective, he does agree in this point with Coffee) are just plain wrong. AND THAT IS PROVEN!
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suggs wrote:Cola is MARRIED :shock:

Sincere condolences old chap :(


Being married can be a good thing. There was a time when, as I saw a car drive past with the ribbons on the front, I'd call out "There goes another sucker!". But that was just 'cos I made the wrong choice first time round.

This time round, it suits me.
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I know this is simplistic but I thought that the New Testament with its message of forgiveness and redemption was meant to be a counter to some of the more extreme parts of the Old Testament. If one is obsessed with a literal interpretation of the Old Testament and insists it is all relevent then surely there is conflict with that view and much of the recorded views of Jesus. I cannot help feeling that many evangelical Christians today, had they been born 2000 years ago, would never have converted from the old faith.
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who cares what some book that has been so heavily edited it would make Lucas look good,says? (ed. -you could do with some editing yourself, suggs boy)

Its not a good read, interesting, or reliable. So why discuss it?
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joecoolfrog wrote:I know this is simplistic but I thought that the New Testament with its message of forgiveness and redemption was meant to be a counter to some of the more extreme parts of the Old Testament.


Not exactly, but then again I think the better understanding is even more simplistic. Within the New Testament is the new covenant. The new covenant replaces the old covenant, or more specifically the law, which is mostly what people cite when quoting from the Old Testament. That is a little simplistic, because there is more than one law. You have the original laws from the covenant to Noah, you have the 10 commandments, and then you have the whole set of laws that were derived afterwards in part because of their worshiping the golden calf. Anyone who cites Deuteronomy is citing those latter laws.

As I said that's way simplistic. The old covenant applied to Jews and Jewish converts. The new covenant "fufills" the old covenant. Non Jewish converts to Christianity were not therefore bound by the old covenant (they did not need to be circumcised or keep the kosher diet rules) and Jewish converts did not have to worry about the impurity associated by being with those who didn't follow the old covenant. In the confusion that followed it was decided that the new covenant replaced the old covenant.
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suggs wrote:who cares what some book that has been so heavily edited it would make Lucas look good,says? (ed. -you could do with some editing yourself, suggs boy)

Its not a good read, interesting, or reliable. So why discuss it?
Lets BIN THE BIBLE!

But Suggs, if we binned the Bible then people like Coffeecream would have no argument left...
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suggs wrote:Lets BIN THE BIBLE!


Bin the Bible? Whatever for? But if you insist ...

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A piss poor joke.
Annoyingly, I laughed :lol:
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You know what? I laughed too. It was witty.
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It probably makes Scrabble easier when you're left with all vowels too.
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tzor wrote:
joecoolfrog wrote:I know this is simplistic but I thought that the New Testament with its message of forgiveness and redemption was meant to be a counter to some of the more extreme parts of the Old Testament.


As I said that's way simplistic. The old covenant applied to Jews and Jewish converts. The new covenant "fufills" the old covenant. Non Jewish converts to Christianity were not therefore bound by the old covenant (they did not need to be circumcised or keep the kosher diet rules) and Jewish converts did not have to worry about the impurity associated by being with those who didn't follow the old covenant. In the confusion that followed it was decided that the new covenant replaced the old covenant.


I will add to this. In Acts 15, the Jerusalem Council, discusses this. In fact, what comes from this, is that in fact the old law is still valid, but Gentiles are not bound to that law, but are tied to the part of the law, that was part of how a Gentile who lives among the Jews was supposed to act. (15:19: abstain from things polluted by idols, from sexual immorality, from things strangled, and from blood.) This comes from Leviticus 17, 18, 19 (If you are really interested, I can send you the verse numbers). I wouldn't say the New Covenant replaces the old one. Instead, what we have is a reminder of who the old covenant applys to, and what parts of the old covenant didn't apply to Gentiles. Yes, Jesus did create a new covenant, but that is different yet, as that was a salvation covenant, and not law covenant like this topic we are discussing.

Now to Players last post.

Now, what does this have to do with homosexuality? Homosexuality IS listed as a sin in the old testament ... right along with other things like eating pig, and wearing tassles on clothing, that folks just don't consider relevant or important today. It is mentioned briefly, very briefly, in the new testament. On the other hand, lying, taking the Lord's name... and many other issues are listed over and over again as sins.


Homosexuality by name may only be mentioned a few times (Rom 1, 1st Cor 6, 1st Tim 1). In the places where it listed, it is listed with many other sins, and usualy several other sexual type of sins. There are many other places in the NT where immoral sexuality is talked about, and in reading the lists included in the 3 references above, i woudl assume that homosexuality would be included in what those other verses have to say about sexual purity. As I mentioned about, from Acts 15. The 4 things listed there that Gentiles DO need to do, include sexual abstaning from sexual immorality, based on the places in the NT, that homosexuality is listed, I think that Acts 15 would include homosexuality.

in this case it is not a matter of the church bowing to society. It is a matter of the church reviewing the results of their teachings, their actions AND reviewing the tests themselves to see if there are some subtleties that have been missed.


This is assuming that something has been missed. Some things are writen down enough that I don't think there can be a mistake about it. Sexual sin in general is one that is listed enough times through scripture, that I am not sure how one could even begine to justify it through the scripture, unless you were to set out specificly to justify it. I like to filter my ideas through the Bible, not filter the Bible through my ideas.

HOWEVER, about one thing there should be no debate. Whatever we do or do not think withing the walls of our churches or amongst the communing body, these rules do NOT apply to the outside world unless there is direct and unquestionable harm. In THAT regard, both Coffeecream AND bradleybradley (though he does not take a Christian perspective, he does agree in this point with Coffee) are just plain wrong. AND THAT IS PROVEN!


Not apply? I would say they apply everywhere. It just ins't my job, or your job, or CC's job to enforce them. What a Christians job is, is to spread the good news, and show love. The rest is out of our control. That doesn't mean the law doesn't apply. Its a sin wether or not the person commiting that sin is a believer or not. So, where does this all leave us. I'm going to treat everyone I come in contact with, the same way. To do anything else, would be me misrepresenting my faith, and not doing my job of sharing Christs love. The thing that many Christians miss, is that the only two things we were ever commanded to do that was anything beyond ourselfs, was to show love, and share Christ. If we do those two things, and then work on ourselfs, we are doing what God has asked.

SO hopefully, we can put away the argument in this thread between people who are using the Bible in several ways to justify differing points. Player, or CoffeeCream, or whoever, if you want to discuss views in the Bible, I would be happy to do so, shoot me a PM. I woudl be happy to share more in depths my thoughts on this. But going beyond this one post, I don't think this is the place to share my views.

To the orginal subject, I am still waiting to see results in new borns. I am willing ot guess, that what we will see, is that infants brains all start off very similar, and that through whatever means (Diet, circumstance, abuse, etc), brains devolope differently. Of course, and the end of the day, I don't think whatever the outcomes of the study are going say, there will still be this debate. lol.
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