Night Strike wrote:Disclaimer: I've only read the first half of the thread.
fair enough, but I tackled some of this in a later post. I will try not to repeat, but still will address your points.
Night Strike wrote:PLAYER57832 wrote:Many "abortions" are actually surgical removeal of already dead infants. This is just one example of how the so-called "right to lifers" don't bother understanding facts.
We all know what's being discussed, no matter what technical definition you want to throw out there. There is a major difference between a natural miscarriage and an artificially induced abortion, and this thread is obviously discussing the latter. No need to waste time and space discussing the first kind and, even worse, trying to use it to justify the existence of the second.
WRONG, because this involves the law and per the law those definitions very much do matter.
You can dismiss that, but then you dismiss what the statistics so often reported say. AND, you miss the real points.
PLAYER57832 wrote:The REAL argument, debate is over the best way to limit abortions. History gives us the best argument for that. The FACTS are that women died over and over in the past because they did not have acces to safe abortions.
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The QUESTION is how best to limit. Here the right wing is hypocritic beyond belief. The way to limit abortion is to educate young girls and boys about the facts of life. To inform them honestly about the risks not just of pregnancy, but disease. AND, yes, because not everyone lives in a household where premarital sex is considered wrong or entirely wrong, they do need to learn some protection methods, along with the honest truth about effectiveness. This includes telling even kids in houses without "traditional" values that getting pregnant as a teen is not a good idea, medically, socialy, etc. A GOOD program reduces teen pregnancies and unwanted pregnancies in general. The FACTS do bear that out. If you don't wish to believe history, just look at Texas.
Night Strike wrote:If you truly want to limit abortions, here are a number of easy steps that can be taken.
1) Close all "clinics" whose primary means of income is abortions. Let's remove these abortion mills such as where doctors come for one day a week and do many abortions and have all procedures done in an actual hospital (you know, where actual surgeries take place).
WRONG.. and your answer shows ignorance of history. That doesn't stop abortions, it pushes women to clinics.
In many areas, doctors who do abortions face serious threats to their families, lives, etc. THAT is why you have roaming doctors who do little else.
Here, some data for you:
full link to article:
http://www.emedicinehealth.com/abortion/article_em.htm
•Worldwide, some 20-30 million legal abortions are performed each year, with another 10-20 million abortions performed illegally. Illegal abortions are unsafe and account for 13% of all deaths of women because of serious complications. Death from abortion is almost unknown in the United States or in other countries where abortion is legally available
Note that the last bit is changing as more and more place make legal abortion even more difficult or impossible.
and..
•From 1900 until the 1960s, abortions were prohibited by law. However, the Kinsey report noted that premarital pregnancies were electively aborted, and public and physician opinion began to be shaped by the alarming reports of increased numbers of unsafe illegal abortions.
In 1965, 265 deaths occurred due to illegal abortions. Of all pregnancy-related complications in New York and California, 20% were due to abortions. A series of US Supreme Court decisions granted increased rights to women and ensured their right to choice in this process. No decision was more important than Griswold v Connecticut, which, in 1965, recognized a constitutional right to privacy and ruled that a married couple had a constitutional right to obtain birth control from their health care provider.
Night Strike wrote:2) Stop allowing minors to get abortions without a minimum of informing their parents and preferably having their consent. Parents have to give high schools permission to give their children Tylenol, yet some schools will bus their students off campus without consent to have abortions. That's just utterly wrong.
Numbers?
here, from the heritage foundation a noteably RIGHT WING source..:
In 1985, 13.5 abortions were performed on minors for every 1,000 girls between the ages of 13 and 17. By 1999, the abortion rate for minors had fallen by over 50 percent to 6.5 per 1,000 teenage girls ages 13 to 17.
AND note.. per earlier comments,the other thread on Google, I looked at several pages and almost all of the listings given were from noted right wing sources. Some give trustworthy data, but that this bias exists in what should be an unbiased search is disturbing and points to how the internet is shaping, not informing opinion in many cases.
ANYWAY, requiring consent of parents is not going to limit abortions significantly. What DOES reduce the number is education of teens. Its a parent's job to teach the mroality. It is the school's job to give facts, so that each teen can make better decisions within that moral framework.. even if its not a moral framework you or I might like. Truth is, NO ONE sane wants teens to be pregnant today. And NO ONE sane wants abortion to be the "solution". But cutting off that as an option doesn't make teens behave any better. The real issue is that teens are raised with varied values AND even those supposedly taught to "not get pregnant" won't often think through the consequences fully. They won't understand how easy it is to be pregnant, the emotions involved, etc. Information, education can help put a bit of a brake on that. Even when that doesn't work, letting them have prevention information at least keeps abortions down. And, finally... sometimes abortion is an option people want.
PS you are wrong about the Tylenol in high school bit, at least in PA. In PA, a child of 15 is able to make their own medical decisions.
Night Strike wrote:3) Stop glorifying irresponsibility!!!!!!!! Enough with Octomom, Teen Mom shows, and other media praises of people who make bad choices.
I agree, except that many of those shows serve well to show how BAD those choices are. And, well, you have been strong among those voicing opposition to effective sex education.
Night Strike wrote: We as a society have got to stop rewarding people who make irresponsible decisions and quit finding ways to praise them for those decisions.
Agreed.
Yet, as a single, independent female, I had no "place" within most churches. Sure, people were friendly enough, happy to try and hook me up with men. However, the single women with 2 kids from different fathers got more real assistance, social support and plain welcome than I WITHIN THE CHURCH. This is not "just me". Look around, talk to women and you find it is commonly the case. So... the very groups claiming to put forward responsible behavior inadvertantly do the opposite. Add in that they ALSO try to prohibit education and you get a fair number of girls who get pregnant either honestly not truly knowing "how it happened" or who are all too willing to do as their boyfriends ask, because that is what they think they are supposed to do, no matter how much lip service is given to other choices.
Night Strike wrote:There is a huge difference between giving someone assistance and praising them for their actions. Our society used to have a negative stigma on teen pregnancies, and that wasn't just about religion. Almost all teenagers do not have the ability to provide for themselves and their children, so we should remind others that this life is not one to be glorified as some perceive it to currently be.
FURTHERMORE, cutting funding to children actually increases the chance that someone will have an abortion.
You claim that society "used to have a stigma". Yes, but almost exclusively targeted to women. Far too many men come out publically opposed to all of this, but turn around with a "wink and a nod" when it comes to boy's behavior. We STILL do not raise girls to fully stand up to men. You cannot have it both ways. You cannot teach girls that thier primary role in life is to submit to and support men and then condemn them severely when they submit to what winds up being the wrong guy.
That is not about abortion. It is about idiocy versus sense and education. And... again, you have come out against education. (no, the so-called "abstinence only" stuff you advocate is not really education, it is keeping information from kids).
Night Strike wrote:4) Stop giving government assistance to people who continue to have kids while already receiving government assistance.
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Again, but what about the choice to keep a child who can only survive hooked up to multiple machines, at taxpayer expense... while ALSO cutting funding for the most basic care for children who need only a little help to stay fully healthy and productive.
What about the moral decision to keep any child alive with utterly artificial means, no matter the quality of that child's life, no matter the expense, no matter the impact to the parents and other children in the family.
You cannot have it both ways. You want to take funding for food from a mother who chose to have her child, but then will object to someone who wants to terminate a pregnancy when they are told their child will never, ever be able to function in society. (and please note I am not saying we should force abortion, I am saying you should not force them to keep the child).