Girl Help

lilwdlnddude · Post by **lilwdlnddude** » Sat Jan 06, 2007 5:16 pm

Fellow men, and women if you want to help also, lend me a hand!! ok so i need some ideas of cheap to not costing any money activities that you can do with a girl BESIDES sex and things related to that. i am not the most creative person and want to do normal fun things with a girl friend. PLEASE HELP

passions · Post by **passions** » Sat Jan 06, 2007 5:19 pm

Cook her supper. Girls like that and if you can't cook order in and introduce her to cc. :lol:

lilwdlnddude · Post by **lilwdlnddude** » Sat Jan 06, 2007 5:26 pm

passions wrote:Cook her supper. Girls like that and if you can't cook order in and introduce her to cc.

That is a great idea thank you so much... i gotta write this down...

Beastly · Post by **Beastly** » Sat Jan 06, 2007 6:28 pm

Take her up in a Hot Air Balloon and then open up a box of Chocolates (Not Cheap ones) and feed her them....Give her a little bite, then you take the other bite... in other words share each one...

s.xkitten · Post by **s.xkitten** » Sat Jan 06, 2007 6:29 pm

he said free or cheap...

nyg5680 · Post by **nyg5680** » Sat Jan 06, 2007 6:31 pm

KoolBak · Post by **KoolBak** » Sat Jan 06, 2007 6:36 pm

Walk / hike....boardgames like backgammon (or hide the sausage in the bagel...LOL!)...but really......picnic, swing at a playground, find free public events like museums, concerts, tours of historical / public / renowned spots.........learn a skill like building a chair out of branches - sounds weird but it is essentially free and fun - I have a bunch of homemade furniture about our yard......so many options.......

Kupo666 · Post by **Kupo666** » Sat Jan 06, 2007 6:36 pm

Just go to the beach. Last I checked, that was free. And then you can watch the sunset together.

nyg5680 · Post by **nyg5680** » Sat Jan 06, 2007 6:38 pm

well u dont no where he lives but kool baks ideas r prob the best just somethin diffrent

KoolBak · Post by **KoolBak** » Sat Jan 06, 2007 6:38 pm

....assuming you are near a beach and it faces West...LOL!!! Costs me $70 in fuel to engage in this activity.....

rogue2 · Post by **rogue2** » Sat Jan 06, 2007 6:57 pm

cc is great for a relationship. My hubby and I play all the time.

Ideas.....

picnic is always good.

do you have a car. get up in the morning, pick her up and go on an adventure. no maps and no destination just drive and see what you can find. (you can do this as a surprise if you know she has a day off, pick her up with flowers in hand. you can pick them yourself that is just as good as buying some) This gives you a chance to get to know what she is all about. If you are really adventurous take a tent and sleep on a beach under the stars. the less planning the better.

fishing is always fun with a few beers. Catch and release if you are not going to eat them.

skating or sledding if you are in a winter place

bake together. does she have a favorite cookie?

if I think of others I'll let you know. Remember, most girls are more concerned about the effort and not the cost.

bluereaper · Post by **bluereaper** » Sat Jan 06, 2007 7:11 pm

Yeah man Koolbak and rogue2 have great ideas. Most women i know appreciate the thought, and works for them, if you know she likes to do a certain something (bikeing, hiking, walking, traveling etc..) do that, or just do something fun that she would like, since she's your girl friend, just compliment her and you should know something she likes at least to do that doesn't cost much money. Play some games at home....cooking is great idea....so yeah just follow what you think she likes nad what rogue2 and Koolbak said.

rathersane · Post by **rathersane** » Sat Jan 06, 2007 7:50 pm

It's winter, and if it's anywhere near as snowy and hilly over where you're at as it is over here, you should take her sledding. You both probably haven't gone since you were kids, and at the end of the day, you can both warm your tired bones in front of the fireplace.

I'd suggest some wine along with that, but anything good is gonna cost you. :wink:

wcaclimbing · Post by **wcaclimbing** » Sat Jan 06, 2007 8:37 pm

go on a long walk and get lost. thats always fun

reverend_kyle · Post by **reverend_kyle** » Sat Jan 06, 2007 8:41 pm

Find free or cheap women.

DogDoc · Post by **DogDoc** » Sat Jan 06, 2007 8:59 pm

I really like KB's ideas - particularly the hiking part. If you have a picturesque area, pack a bottle of wine and a light lunch like cheese and crackers, find a nice waterfall, and let things go from there.

Boardgames is excellent, too. For two players, I'd recommend Reiner Knizia's Lord of the Rings (published by Fantasy Flight) or Carcassonne to start, especially if she's not a "boardame person." Risk is great but it can be too competitive and she may not be into that. LotR is good because it's a cooperative game - you either win or lose as a team (you play against Sauron, which is guided by the game system). Carcassonne is a good 2-player game, not too competitive, easy to learn, in which you try to build a medieval city using tiles. There are probably some other good 2player games for non-gamers but these come to mind the fastest.

wcaclimbing · Post by **wcaclimbing** » Sat Jan 06, 2007 9:00 pm

If you still live with your parents, it would probably be a good idea for her to meet your parents. then your parents will like her and not think you are going out with the "wrong type of girl"

Sammy gags · Post by **Sammy gags** » Sat Jan 06, 2007 9:25 pm

y dont u just lie down on a couch 2gether & watch a movie, thats how i spend most of my time with my gf

wcaclimbing · Post by **wcaclimbing** » Sat Jan 06, 2007 10:01 pm

Hey sammy, is that you and your GF in your Avvy?

lilwdlnddude, could we know what age group you are in?
(0-10, 10-20, 20-30, 30-40, 40-50, 50+)

that would help us out a lot, cause if you are under 18, we wont reccomend anything alcoholic or anything that your parents wouldnt like :roll:

Beastly · Post by **Beastly** » Sat Jan 06, 2007 10:09 pm

reverend_kyle wrote:Find free or cheap women.

do you do that? your tff kyle
:wink:

Free footrubs are nice

wcaclimbing · Post by **wcaclimbing** » Sat Jan 06, 2007 10:17 pm

Beastly wrote:Free footrubs are nice

For the guy or the girl?

lilwdlnddude · Post by **lilwdlnddude** » Sat Jan 06, 2007 11:37 pm

reverend_kyle wrote:Find free or cheap women.

Haha, thats hilarious. Yeah i am 17 so i cant do anything alcoholic. I dont like alcohol anyways, everything ive tried just dosnt taste good at all to me. It is winter and i wish it would snow where i live, it usually does but for some reason it hasnt snowed this year.... weird.... Hike/bike/walk great itdea!! i live right next to a nature park/forest area so i guess that would be a good place. hey she likes risk! haha, but she dosnt play to often. ive told her about the site but she hasnt joined yet. oh just to let you all know she isnt "officialy" my "girl friend", ha i feel rediculous saying that, but yeah its gonna happen maybe. yeah she has met my parents and they think she is cool, so that worked out nicely. Movies... thats good to. actually tonight we were both exausted so we watched a movie... a scary one, well not to me of course, haha, but it was the movie High Tension if you guys have ever heard of it. I live near a beach but, the winter makes the water freezing so, cant go swimmin or anything. i need to learn how to make something she likes (picky eater). but she is pretty straight forward, not like one of thoes girls that wants the guy to figure everything out about them, no offence to you girls who do that, but the straight forward thing makes a guys life so much easier. haha, so i guess ill just ask her what kind of food she likes. but yeah, thanks CC, your making my life so much easier, and my mind more creative. Keep the ideas comin, maybe your helping more than one guy out on this site!

Caleb the Cruel · Post by **Caleb the Cruel** » Sat Jan 06, 2007 11:53 pm

rathersane wrote:It's winter

Not in the southern hemisphere.

jay_a2j · Post by **jay_a2j** » Sun Jan 07, 2007 12:57 am

lilwdlnddude wrote: I dont like alcohol anyways, everything ive tried just dosnt taste good at all to me.

Its not you. Alcohol tastes like crap! People just drink it for its intoxicating effects. Really.... who in their right mind would drink alcohol if you could not get drunk from it? Very few people, I'm sure.

lilwdlnddude · Post by **lilwdlnddude** » Sun Jan 07, 2007 12:12 pm

jay_a2j wrote:
lilwdlnddude wrote: I dont like alcohol anyways, everything ive tried just dosnt taste good at all to me.

Its not you. Alcohol tastes like crap! People just drink it for its intoxicating effects. Really.... who in their right mind would drink alcohol if you could not get drunk from it? Very few people, I'm sure.

true, i dont like being drunk anyways. and the after effects.... blah....