only start your own games Wink.. than your always red
i have friends who play this game that start them, just not possible for me (i know you were half-way kidding)
I could see issues arising in team games when player x tells blue to attack red.
this is true. perhaps as you join the game, you get a number in front of it. so if you started the game and were blue you would be "1 Tr0y" in blue and i joined next i would be "2 bayoupimp" in red (assuming those are the colors we'd choose, if we both chose red, you would be red on yours and i would be red on mine and the other would be blue or whatever). that way, player 3 could tell player 4 to attack player 1 instead of colors.