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Re: Abortion

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BigBallinStalin wrote:
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PLAYER57832 wrote:Government funds can be used for to help subsidize PRIVATE INSURANCE plans for lower income people that might cover abortion.
You forgot 2 tiny little pieces of information.

#1 we are talking about a VERY, VERY small amount of money that even might possibly go toward ANY abortions.

#2. the numbers of abortions charged to these policies "because someone screwed up" is absysmally small.

#3. If someone is getting a government subsidy for insurance, they are already a low income individual. That means their child will go onto taxpayer roles. You are prime among those wanting to cut costs... yet here, you want more kids on the dole?

I suppose you are also against paying for birth control? :roll:
1 and 2) Ah yes, it's so small of an expense, that it doesn't matter if you're paying for people to escape the consequences of their own decisions. That in turn leads to a further lack of self-responsibility--all of which you support.

cut the crap, I DO NOT support perpetuation of irresponsinbility. Making abortion illegal does not truly teach responsibility. In fact, it often does the opposite. Education is what decreases abortion. Education and access to birth control.

As to birth control "promoting irresponsible behavior". That is a moral judgement. The law is a poor place to teach morality.
Again, EDUCATION, honest education gives kids the information they need. There are many, many medical and social reasons for younger people not to engage in sex until they are mature. It's not just about possible pregnancies. For all the right wing likes to blast Planned Parenthood, they actually perform few abortions and concentrate more heavily on education, etc. (I don't agree with everything they put forward, but its better than the so-called "abstinence only" stuff ultra conservatives try to call "education" -- that is, the kind that won't talk about sex or birth control or anything except "don't do it").

Once someone is older... I still feel there is a lot of evidence of harm, but it is a moral/religious judgement.
BigBallinStalin wrote:That's fine, but don't make other people pay for something that they shouldn't have to pay for.
We have to pay to support many of those kids who are not aborted.

We have to pay for MANY things we don't personnaly support, because either the nation's "good" (as percieved by our elected leaders of the time) or other people's needs supercede our own beliefs.

Attempting to claim this is about money is extremely hypocritical, given the costs involved. A few pennies versus the hundreds of thousands it takes to raise a child.
BigBallinStalin wrote:3) Well, I'm pretty sure that you know where my thoughts lie on extended welfare benefits or giving tax credits to low-income families that have more than 2 kids.
Except, we were talking about irresponsible teens, primarily. Those children fall within the "first 2". Second, when a teen has to raise a child, their chances of becoming a fully tax-paying professional are much, much slimer.

Again, another case of extreme hypocrisy.

Furthermore, as hard as it is to raise a child when you have the finances, a committed partner, etc., life of children born to "less than perfect" families have it even harder. They are far more likely to suffer abuse, even the extreme kind, are more likely to wind up themselves in social services or jail.

And note, we are not talking about people who are willing single parents here.. or necessarily even single parents only. We are talking about folks who don't want a child .
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BigBallinStalin wrote:Who's in favor of coercing others to obey one's own moral standard?
By your arguments, you are.
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Snorri1234 wrote:If the parents are supportive and loving then the girl has probably already told them, and if they're not then telling them is the worst idea ever if you care about the student.
This is definitely not true and presumes far too much. Just because the girl THINKS the parents won't be supportive is not necessarily the reality of the situation. Neither my wife nor I thought our parents would be supportive when we got pregnant in high school, but both turned out to be VERY supportive (once they got over the initial shock/anger/etc).
This is indeed complex. Myself, I think parents ought to be notified unless there are extreme conditions (and in that case, the girl is most likely best removed).


However, even a few decades ago, it was still considered extremely shameful to have a child "out of wedlock". Even back when abortions were illegal, parents often did march their daughters in to have abortions against their will.

Also, there is the whole grey area of common law marriages and the like. It is traditional that married individuals be considered "of age" in most circumstances even if they are not 18 yet. (I don't think for military service, but for renting houses, etc.)

But one facet no one has mentioned, in some cases schools can absolutely give medication without the parent's consent. Not tylenol, but psycological medication, etc. I will have to do a search to find it, but there were a couple of court rulings on this recently. ( I cannot remember the state).
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PLAYER57832 wrote: But one facet no one has mentioned, in some cases schools can absolutely give medication without the parent's consent. Not tylenol, but psycological medication, etc. I will have to do a search to find it, but there were a couple of court rulings on this recently. ( I cannot remember the state).
Very interesting...I've definitely not heard this, and I would be VERY interested in seeing it. My reason is because I have one student who is what is called a "selective mute". There is medication that our speech pathologist is absolutely convinced will help the young man, but his mother is adamant that "he's just shy and he'll get over it eventually.

Now, this young man CANNOT SPEAK when there is anyone other than his parents who is in any way in a position of authority nearby, whether it be a teacher, counselor, coach, whatever. CANNOT SPEAK, PERIOD. He can talk with his friends fine as long as they're in a relaxed environment as long as no position of authority is aroundm but even has considerable difficulty just in the school hallways. If I call him on the phone to try to speak with him that way, he still locks up. He is a very good young man, so this absolutely is not a defiance thing or anything of that nature. I really feel badly for him, because if he doesn't get this worked out, he's going to be so very limited as far as job possibilities (and he badly wants to join the Air Force, but that's out of the question).

(Sorry to derail for a bit.)
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gotta love those triple posts Mr. Smarty pants

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It's easy to call people murderers on the internet.
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natty_dread wrote:It's easy to call people murderers on the internet.
Its easy to say anything on the internet natty, like kittens are cute? you could get shot for saying that in the states
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grifftron wrote:gotta love those triple posts Mr. Smarty pants

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rdsrds2120 wrote:
natty_dread wrote:I have always been baffled by the fact that the most vocal anti-abortionists are usually highly religious people.

I mean, doesn't their religion say that the dead innocent babies go on to heaven to enjoy god's grace for all eternity? So why exactly is it a bad thing for these babies to die? They're just getting a free pass to teh heavens.
Less children to work on the farm.

That may seem like sarcasm, but it's thought to be one of the prime motivations against birth control from people in the old days. Abortion gets rid babies before they can grow up and be "productive and fruitful" as the bible states.

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Actually, its fewer people in the religion.

BUT, we have to remember that the death rate of infants, young children was very high up until pretty recent times.
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A good point, as well. As countries age, we see a demographic shift in age v population due to advancements.

So...that's that for abortion?

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rdsrds2120 wrote:A good point, as well. As countries age, we see a demographic shift in age v population due to advancements.

So...that's that for abortion?

-rd
I think I got the first half of this, but maybe a typo in the second half?
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Symmetry wrote:
rdsrds2120 wrote:A good point, as well. As countries age, we see a demographic shift in age v population due to advancements.

So...that's that for abortion?

-rd
I think I got the first half of this, but maybe a typo in the second half?
I believe he was referring to the thread?
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PLAYER57832 wrote:
Symmetry wrote:
rdsrds2120 wrote:A good point, as well. As countries age, we see a demographic shift in age v population due to advancements.

So...that's that for abortion?

-rd
I think I got the first half of this, but maybe a typo in the second half?
I believe he was referring to the thread?
Could well be.

My conclusions- a lot of people think that abortion is murder, but don't understand why, and can't explain what they are advocating. It's a slogan, and nothing else beyond faith in that slogan.
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Symmetry wrote:My conclusions- a lot of people think that abortion is murder, but don't understand why, and can't explain what they are advocating. It's a slogan, and nothing else beyond faith in that slogan.
Oh, they explain.. "we believe our God tells us it is wrong". But any other arguments or debates are superfulous because they "know" they are correct. And they deny any evidence to the contrary as "just lies".

But instead of admitting they are fascists, theocratists, they try to claim anyone who disagrees is "dictating" to them what they have to do. They ignore the reverse, that they seem to think they have the right to dictate what others do.
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If I thought it would not be locked, I might start my own thread/poll, because as long as we allow the question to be "is this killing or not", then we allow the far right to decide. We need to ensure it is "should this be legal" and "what is the best way to limit abortions". However, they refuse to engage in that debate entirely.
On second thought, I will try.
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