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thegreekdog wrote:
Army of GOD wrote:
kentington wrote:They can call it marriage or whatever they want, but it shouldn't have anything to do with religion because the government doesn't follow a religion.
what non-religious arguments can possibly be made in favor of not allowing gay marriage?
Hi. Here it is:

(1) The government should not be in the business of regulating or providing benefits for interpersonal relationships.
(2) Because the government should not be in the business of regulating or providing benefits for interpersonal relationships, the government should not be in a position to either approve of or disapprove of gay marriage or any other marriage.

The end. This is my view, by the way. Either the government does nothing with marriage (my preference) or it treats all interpersonal relationships equally (straight, gay, polygamy).
That is what I was trying to say. I am just horrible at saying it sometimes.
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kentington wrote:
thegreekdog wrote:
Army of GOD wrote:
kentington wrote:They can call it marriage or whatever they want, but it shouldn't have anything to do with religion because the government doesn't follow a religion.
what non-religious arguments can possibly be made in favor of not allowing gay marriage?
Hi. Here it is:

(1) The government should not be in the business of regulating or providing benefits for interpersonal relationships.
(2) Because the government should not be in the business of regulating or providing benefits for interpersonal relationships, the government should not be in a position to either approve of or disapprove of gay marriage or any other marriage.

The end. This is my view, by the way. Either the government does nothing with marriage (my preference) or it treats all interpersonal relationships equally (straight, gay, polygamy).
That is what I was trying to say. I am just horrible at saying it sometimes.
The problem with that position is that liberals accuse me of being a "johnny-come-lately" (no pun intended) or say "polygamy = rape" or some such nonsense. Conservatives accuse me of being irreligious and/or liberal (which, to them is the same thing).
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thegreekdog wrote:
kentington wrote:
thegreekdog wrote:
Army of GOD wrote:
kentington wrote:They can call it marriage or whatever they want, but it shouldn't have anything to do with religion because the government doesn't follow a religion.
what non-religious arguments can possibly be made in favor of not allowing gay marriage?
Hi. Here it is:

(1) The government should not be in the business of regulating or providing benefits for interpersonal relationships.
(2) Because the government should not be in the business of regulating or providing benefits for interpersonal relationships, the government should not be in a position to either approve of or disapprove of gay marriage or any other marriage.

The end. This is my view, by the way. Either the government does nothing with marriage (my preference) or it treats all interpersonal relationships equally (straight, gay, polygamy).
That is what I was trying to say. I am just horrible at saying it sometimes.
The problem with that position is that liberals accuse me of being a "johnny-come-lately" (no pun intended) or say "polygamy = rape" or some such nonsense. Conservatives accuse me of being irreligious and/or liberal (which, to them is the same thing).
I understand that. Polygamy does not equal rape but it can include it.
Lol @"johnny-come-lately"
Let's say that you just decided to view it this way and you actually are a "johnny-come-lately" Would they prefer you didn't change your mind and continued with your previous views against them? Is this a popularity competition?
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thegreekdog wrote:
kentington wrote:
thegreekdog wrote:
Army of GOD wrote:
kentington wrote:They can call it marriage or whatever they want, but it shouldn't have anything to do with religion because the government doesn't follow a religion.
what non-religious arguments can possibly be made in favor of not allowing gay marriage?
Hi. Here it is:

(1) The government should not be in the business of regulating or providing benefits for interpersonal relationships.
(2) Because the government should not be in the business of regulating or providing benefits for interpersonal relationships, the government should not be in a position to either approve of or disapprove of gay marriage or any other marriage.

The end. This is my view, by the way. Either the government does nothing with marriage (my preference) or it treats all interpersonal relationships equally (straight, gay, polygamy).
That is what I was trying to say. I am just horrible at saying it sometimes.
The problem with that position is that liberals accuse me of being a "johnny-come-lately" (no pun intended) or say "polygamy = rape" or some such nonsense. Conservatives accuse me of being irreligious and/or liberal (which, to them is the same thing).
Welcome back greek, we missed you. I am just going to ignore what you said above because I like you.
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I'm curious as to what you mean by libtards calling you "johnny-come-lately" tgd.
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This is important for us to understand. Who exactly has TGD been coming on lately, and what is his relationship with Johnny?
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BigBallinStalin wrote:This is important for us to understand. Who exactly has TGD been coming on lately, and what is his relationship with Johnny?

Lawyer client privilege.
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notyou2 wrote:
BigBallinStalin wrote:This is important for us to understand. Who exactly has TGD been coming on lately, and what is his relationship with Johnny?

Lawyer client privilege.
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rdsrds2120 wrote:
notyou2 wrote:
BigBallinStalin wrote:This is important for us to understand. Who exactly has TGD been coming on lately, and what is his relationship with Johnny?

Lawyer client privilege.
Was it pro-bone-o?

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thegreekdog wrote:
rdsrds2120 wrote:
notyou2 wrote:
BigBallinStalin wrote:This is important for us to understand. Who exactly has TGD been coming on lately, and what is his relationship with Johnny?

Lawyer client privilege.
Was it pro-bone-o?

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heavycola wrote:Following a discussion about this in meatspace (what white-knuckle weekends I have)...

So St Paul is the NT authority on homosexuality's sinfulness, yes?

But Paul was also pretty authoritative when it came to women:
Ephesians 5
22: Wives, be subject to your husbands, as to the Lord. 23: For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. 24: As the church is subject to Christ, so let wives also be subject in everything to their husbands.

1 Timothy 2
11: Let a woman learn in silence with all submissiveness. 12: I permit no woman to teach or to have authority over men; she is to keep silent.

1 Corinthians 14
34: the women should keep silence in the churches. For they are not permitted to speak, but should be subordinate, as even the law says. 35: If there is anything they desire to know, let them ask their husbands at home. For it is shameful for a woman to speak in church.
Should women be this silent and submissive? Is this how christian men are supposed to treat their wives and daughters?
If not, why are these instructions from Paul dispensable while his instruction on same-sex shagging are not?

Yes, yes, this looks like a troll thread, but i am genuinely interested in this apparent discrepancy that was only pointed out to me yesterday by a theologian buddy.
I think that when Paul was talking about women being silent, that was in respect to the social values of the time, in the same way that he references slavery. However, a lot of the NT teaching introduces concepts that would eventually lead to changes within those social stuctures. For example, even though it writes that slaves should be submissive to their masters and all that, which would appear to be an endorsement of slavery, it also teaches that masters should treat their slaves with respect, and see them as believers in Christ just like they are. This changing of a viewpoint accomplishes a lot. It wouldn't do a lot of good to tell slave owners "you can't have slaves" - it is far more effective to get them to begin to see their slaves as equals rather than as possessive.

In the same way, there is a lot of NT material that teaches equality between men and women. It used to be that women were treated as possessions, almost servants within the household. However, here Paul is teaching that women should be free to ask their husbands and discuss deeper issues of the faith. That is subtle, but it provides a beginning foundation for treating women differently. Elsewhere the NT specifically teaches that men and women are equal under Christ. So while teaching women here to stay within the social confines that they find themselves in, it is also laying the foundation for a change of that viewpoint in the future.

Homosexuality is considered to be a different thing. There are references in the OT to homosexuality being sinful. While the NT does a lot to cancel out a good portion of the OT restrictions, belief in the sinfulness of homosexuality is affirmed in the NT, which causes many to believe that the references to it in the OT still apply as well. Rather than being instructions on how you should act (like telling women that they should remain quiet, or slaves that they should obey their masters), the teachings against homosexuality are more about the sinfulness of the act itself - it is more negative in nature. It teaches that homosexuality is unnatural. The teachings are not specifically "you should not be homosexual" as much as they are pointing to examples of people being or doing evil things. This is just a different style of teaching than the teaching about women and their attitudes, and I think that is why it is held to a different standard than some of Paul's other teachings.
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heavycola wrote:Following a discussion about this in meatspace (what white-knuckle weekends I have)...

So St Paul is the NT authority on homosexuality's sinfulness, yes?

But Paul was also pretty authoritative when it came to women:
Ephesians 5
22: Wives, be subject to your husbands, as to the Lord. 23: For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. 24: As the church is subject to Christ, so let wives also be subject in everything to their husbands.

1 Timothy 2
11: Let a woman learn in silence with all submissiveness. 12: I permit no woman to teach or to have authority over men; she is to keep silent.

1 Corinthians 14
34: the women should keep silence in the churches. For they are not permitted to speak, but should be subordinate, as even the law says. 35: If there is anything they desire to know, let them ask their husbands at home. For it is shameful for a woman to speak in church.
Should women be this silent and submissive? Is this how christian men are supposed to treat their wives and daughters?
If not, why are these instructions from Paul dispensable while his instruction on same-sex shagging are not?

Yes, yes, this looks like a troll thread, but i am genuinely interested in this apparent discrepancy that was only pointed out to me yesterday by a theologian buddy.
Hate to say it but, Ephesians 5 is much too complicated. Additionally, I'm to lazy to address it for you and since I can't find a church submitting to Christ at this time. (for the most part because I am not submitting myself properly) we'll need to skip over this one. If a married couple were living in submission to Christ it would be a joy to follow that rule. Who am I to try to talk them out of something that brings pleasure.

The next two I believe (yes I know "the bible is timeless" same today tommorow etc.) are pertaining to the time they were written when the churches needed to be mindfully aware of certain laws regarding temples and related premises. Partially because they were schools and partially because many of them were transitioning from being subject to the law to being part of the the new covenant.

Women were expected to be silent in the temples and 1 Corinthians 14 is just stating that rule. Since the role of a modern church is to provide a place for people to praise and worship together sharing ideas instead of teaching them. That rule may not be relevant. Kind of like a 3000 kph speed limit. You could not break it if you tried.
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thegreekdog wrote:
kentington wrote:
thegreekdog wrote:
Army of GOD wrote:
kentington wrote:They can call it marriage or whatever they want, but it shouldn't have anything to do with religion because the government doesn't follow a religion.
what non-religious arguments can possibly be made in favor of not allowing gay marriage?
Hi. Here it is:

(1) The government should not be in the business of regulating or providing benefits for interpersonal relationships.
(2) Because the government should not be in the business of regulating or providing benefits for interpersonal relationships, the government should not be in a position to either approve of or disapprove of gay marriage or any other marriage.

The end. This is my view, by the way. Either the government does nothing with marriage (my preference) or it treats all interpersonal relationships equally (straight, gay, polygamy).
That is what I was trying to say. I am just horrible at saying it sometimes.
The problem with that position is that liberals accuse me of being a "johnny-come-lately" (no pun intended) or say "polygamy = rape" or some such nonsense.
Wait...what? Liberals say "polygamy=rape"? That seems like a decidedly conservative stance to me. Also, why do they call you a johnny-come-lately (have I heard this before? I don't recall it)?
thegreekdog wrote:Conservatives accuse me of being irreligious and/or liberal (which, to them is the same thing).
Those parenthii are entirely too true.
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Woodruff wrote:Wait...what? Liberals say "polygamy=rape"? That seems like a decidedly conservative stance to me. Also, why do they call you a johnny-come-lately (have I heard this before? I don't recall it)?
I guess some explanation is required (I'll be making a lot of broad generalizations).

(1) People who are supportive of gay marriage tend to be liberal. People who are not supportive of gay marriage tend to be conservative.
(2) About 50 to 100 years ago, the US Supreme Court ruled that laws restricting marriage to monogamist relationships had a compelling state interest and were thus not violative of freedom of religion. Part of the compelling state interest was the idea that polygamy was "ew gross." The "ew gross" argument seems to be at the heart of most peoples' (conservatives) opposition to gay marriage (that and the religious part of it). The "ew gross" argument also seems to be inherent in many non-conservatives' views on polygamy. An additional argument, which some argue carries more weight than "ew gross," is that polygamy breeds a culture of submission by women, incest, and rape. I'm not aware of any studies proving or disproving this, but this appears to be the argument against permitting polygamy.
(3) Conservatives liken permitting gay marriage to permitting polygamy in the hopes that people will be swayed on the argument. Therefore, most people likely believe that there is something inherently wrong with polygamy, including liberals. When conservatives make this argument (recall Rick Santorum's ridiculous speech, which also brought up fucking animals as well as polygamy), liberals point out that polygamy is bad because of submission by women, incest, and rape (although, since I'm not aware of any studies proving this, I believe it's the "ew gross" argument applied to polygamy). Therefore, liberals contend that polygamy and gay marriage are not similar (thus indirectly being unsupportive of polygamists).

I'm not saying conservatives are supportive of polygamy. Rather, I'm of the opinion, based on discussions I've had with my liberal friends and things I've read from liberals that attempt to refute the conservative argument that gay marriage = polygamy, that liberals are not supportive of polygamy and use the "polygamy is bad because of submission of women, incest, and rape" as the argument to sway people that polygamy does not equal gay marriage.

I say Johnny-come-lately because the argument that the state should not regulate or be involved with marriage was not one made by most people prior to the last few years or so (including me). I'm absolutely a Johnny-come-lately by that reckoning.
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thegreekdog wrote:
Woodruff wrote:Wait...what? Liberals say "polygamy=rape"? That seems like a decidedly conservative stance to me. Also, why do they call you a johnny-come-lately (have I heard this before? I don't recall it)?
I guess some explanation is required (I'll be making a lot of broad generalizations).

(1) People who are supportive of gay marriage tend to be liberal. People who are not supportive of gay marriage tend to be conservative.
(2) About 50 to 100 years ago, the US Supreme Court ruled that laws restricting marriage to monogamist relationships had a compelling state interest and were thus not violative of freedom of religion. Part of the compelling state interest was the idea that polygamy was "ew gross." The "ew gross" argument seems to be at the heart of most peoples' (conservatives) opposition to gay marriage (that and the religious part of it). The "ew gross" argument also seems to be inherent in many non-conservatives' views on polygamy. An additional argument, which some argue carries more weight than "ew gross," is that polygamy breeds a culture of submission by women, incest, and rape. I'm not aware of any studies proving or disproving this, but this appears to be the argument against permitting polygamy.
2 clarifications /additions here.
1. There is evidence that polygamy is often tied to child brides and, though this is a more modern finding, in a lot of young men who are "at loose ends" and thus more prone to violence, etc. Warren Jeffs an admittedly extreme example is known for pushing out young boys. Even when its not done so blatently, it happens in more subtle fashions. The child bride bit is similarly tied to a lack of adult women to go around. Smaller groups can maintain the "ratio" bey "recruiting" women from outside, but whenever polygamy becomes more widespread, it results in a mis-match.

2. Polygamy = more children. In the past this would have been a fear similar to that of new immigrants -- they will overrun our political system, change the country values, etc. Today, increased need for welfare and other concerns are perhaps more of an issue.
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I'm not saying conservatives are supportive of polygamy. Rather, I'm of the opinion, based on discussions I've had with my liberal friends and things I've read from liberals that attempt to refute the conservative argument that gay marriage = polygamy, that liberals are not supportive of polygamy and use the "polygamy is bad because of submission of women, incest, and rape" as the argument to sway people that polygamy does not equal gay marriage.
Not entirely, but yes, close.
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heavycola wrote:Following a discussion about this in meatspace (what white-knuckle weekends I have)...

So St Paul is the NT authority on homosexuality's sinfulness, yes?

But Paul was also pretty authoritative when it came to women:
Ephesians 5
22: Wives, be subject to your husbands, as to the Lord. 23: For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. 24: As the church is subject to Christ, so let wives also be subject in everything to their husbands.

1 Timothy 2
11: Let a woman learn in silence with all submissiveness. 12: I permit no woman to teach or to have authority over men; she is to keep silent.

1 Corinthians 14
34: the women should keep silence in the churches. For they are not permitted to speak, but should be subordinate, as even the law says. 35: If there is anything they desire to know, let them ask their husbands at home. For it is shameful for a woman to speak in church.
Should women be this silent and submissive? Is this how christian men are supposed to treat their wives and daughters?
If not, why are these instructions from Paul dispensable while his instruction on same-sex shagging are not?

Yes, yes, this looks like a troll thread, but i am genuinely interested in this apparent discrepancy that was only pointed out to me yesterday by a theologian buddy.
To get back to the original OP question, taking it as a legitimate question and not simply a troll... both Saul/Paul AND Martin Luther are notorious for disdain of women. There are a lot of explanations for this, many mentioned above.

However, there are also a couple of other points. First, I will put forward an extremely controversial idea that I am just mentioning, not going to debate. This takes note of fact that Paul came into the scene after Christ died and that the real 12th disciple was not Paul, but Mary. (who was NOT Mary the prostitute, though many believe certain church leaders intentionally let the two women be confused to reduce the impact of Mary Magdelene). Now, I am not going to argue that, but if it interests you, you can research it.

The other is that Paul was very much a product of his time. His "benefit" or "addition" to the faith is that he went a long way to open it up to non-Jews. However, there was no way that non Jews, Greeks in particular, would have accepted any kind of female-male parity. Slavery is also not condemned. Humanity had to change and grow. However, its also noted that. as with the case of slavery, there is some difference of opinion in what Paul's words actually mean. The word "dominate", for example, in regards to the Earth is often said to be a slight mis-translation/misunderstanding of western bias. The word it is derived from has, at its root "domos" , which is perhaps more correctly translated as "caring for". It is interesting that some of the exact wording used for slaves is also used for women. In many respects, some of the advice can be seen as how less powerful people can make an impact. Fighting or direct confrontation is rarely the best answer. Instead, the advice is to submit.. and, essentially "shame" the more powerful person into good action.

Another idea often expressed is, plain and simply, that men are more "geared for" direct leadership, whereas women are more "geared for" indirect leadership -- the power behind the man, so to speak. That position, in history can mean far more power than being in the fore, but with a bit less risk.

Finally, there is the concept of "if no one else..". IN other words, it might be preferable for men to be in charge, but it is perfectly acceptable for women to take those roles when they are better than the men.

There are other, more liberal ideas about that, but this is all I have time and brainpower for right now.
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Thanks for the comprehensive replies. interesting stuff & much appreciated. Yo dimezz!

Dwilhelmi - your argument that paul was being a sly social progressive is really interesting. JC was too, I guess. That begs the question - why is xianity associated with social conservatism? Or is that just because the loudest xians are on the US right?

The other main argument - that paul's pronouncements on women and slavery were merely of their time - is interesting too. Obviously as a godless heathen I believe th ebible is of its time and is not the timeless word of an eternal deity. BUt then there is the distinction between paul's exhortations, and sin. Sin is always sin, presumably. So i googled biblical sin adn thgis passage from paul's letter to the galatians came up (5:19-21):
The acts of the sinful nature are obvious: sexual immorality, impurity and debauchery; idolatry and witchcraft; hatred, discord, jealousy, fits of rage, selfish ambition, dissensions, factions and envy; drunkenness, orgies, and the like.
So here homosexuality is a subcategory of sexual immorality etc, but it is ranked alongside jealousy, discord (??), selfish ambition... yet there are no demonstrations against these sins. The point I am groping towards I guess is that any bibe-based rationale for opposing gay marriage falls flat very quickly: point to the crazy. long-disregarded laws laid down in leviticus, and we are directed to the NT. But Paul defines gayness as a sin alongside the bizarre, the banal and the hopelessly vague. Can you imagine a campaign to cure people of selfish ambition in the US?

PS i know this isn't black and white, and that there are plenty of liberal xians who share a belief that gods ideal of eudaimonia - human fulfillment? flourishing? - can only be achieved through a stable, loving relationship, and that the sexual orientation of those involved makes no difference. (Gene Robinson's ordination proves that. Hell, a gay vicar presents Saturday Live in Radio 4 over here every week. Those are the two gay churchmen i know off the top of my head.) Galations again - 'There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.'
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thegreekdog wrote:
Woodruff wrote:Wait...what? Liberals say "polygamy=rape"? That seems like a decidedly conservative stance to me. Also, why do they call you a johnny-come-lately (have I heard this before? I don't recall it)?
I guess some explanation is required (I'll be making a lot of broad generalizations).

(1) People who are supportive of gay marriage tend to be liberal. People who are not supportive of gay marriage tend to be conservative.
(2) About 50 to 100 years ago, the US Supreme Court ruled that laws restricting marriage to monogamist relationships had a compelling state interest and were thus not violative of freedom of religion. Part of the compelling state interest was the idea that polygamy was "ew gross." The "ew gross" argument seems to be at the heart of most peoples' (conservatives) opposition to gay marriage (that and the religious part of it). The "ew gross" argument also seems to be inherent in many non-conservatives' views on polygamy. An additional argument, which some argue carries more weight than "ew gross," is that polygamy breeds a culture of submission by women, incest, and rape. I'm not aware of any studies proving or disproving this, but this appears to be the argument against permitting polygamy.
(3) Conservatives liken permitting gay marriage to permitting polygamy in the hopes that people will be swayed on the argument. Therefore, most people likely believe that there is something inherently wrong with polygamy, including liberals. When conservatives make this argument (recall Rick Santorum's ridiculous speech, which also brought up fucking animals as well as polygamy), liberals point out that polygamy is bad because of submission by women, incest, and rape (although, since I'm not aware of any studies proving this, I believe it's the "ew gross" argument applied to polygamy). Therefore, liberals contend that polygamy and gay marriage are not similar (thus indirectly being unsupportive of polygamists).

I'm not saying conservatives are supportive of polygamy. Rather, I'm of the opinion, based on discussions I've had with my liberal friends and things I've read from liberals that attempt to refute the conservative argument that gay marriage = polygamy, that liberals are not supportive of polygamy and use the "polygamy is bad because of submission of women, incest, and rape" as the argument to sway people that polygamy does not equal gay marriage.
I see. That makes some sense. So basically, it's due to the liberals trying to draw a distinction between homosexuality and polygamy (which is stupid, because the distinctions are obvious and have nothing to do with rape) whereas the conservatives essentially lump them together. I'm not trying to put words in your mouth here, nor am I trying to be sarcastic/sardonic. It actually makes sense to me, even though it's a dumb position for those liberals to take.
thegreekdog wrote:I say Johnny-come-lately because the argument that the state should not regulate or be involved with marriage was not one made by most people prior to the last few years or so (including me). I'm absolutely a Johnny-come-lately by that reckoning.
Ok, got it. Me too, quite honestly.
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heavycola wrote:Dwilhelmi - your argument that paul was being a sly social progressive is really interesting. JC was too, I guess. That begs the question - why is xianity associated with social conservatism? Or is that just because the loudest xians are on the US right?
In my opinion, it is exactly that last question. I've known plenty of reasonably liberal Christians, but they unfortunately seem to be much less politically interested/motivated.
heavycola wrote:So here homosexuality is a subcategory of sexual immorality etc, but it is ranked alongside jealousy, discord (??), selfish ambition... yet there are no demonstrations against these sins.
Indeed.
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I'd say that objecting to the homosexual marriage based on the possibility of polygamy makes about as much sense as objecting to heterosexual marriage on the possibility of polygamy.

Of course, only heterosexual marriage has actually lead to any kind of polygamy, but who can argue against an irrational fear?
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Re: homosexuality, women and the NT

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Plus there would be the countries that actually practice polygamy- they ain't exactly friendly to gay marriage. Or, to be more exact, they tend to execute homosexuals.
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Re: homosexuality, women and the NT

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heavycola wrote:So here homosexuality is a subcategory of sexual immorality etc, but it is ranked alongside jealousy, discord (??), selfish ambition... yet there are no demonstrations against these sins.
The difference here, I think, is that today homosexuality is being portrayed as just fine. Nobody thinks that jealousy and selfish ambition are just fine. Nobody holds Selfish Ambition Pride Rallies. It is one thing to admit that sin is committed, as it is committed by every single person alive; it is quite another thing to embrace sin, brag about sin, to make sin the center of one's life. I think that is why so much more attention is given to homosexuality over these other sins.
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Re: homosexuality, women and the NT

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dwilhelmi wrote:
heavycola wrote:So here homosexuality is a subcategory of sexual immorality etc, but it is ranked alongside jealousy, discord (??), selfish ambition... yet there are no demonstrations against these sins.
The difference here, I think, is that today homosexuality is being portrayed as just fine. Nobody thinks that jealousy and selfish ambition are just fine. Nobody holds Selfish Ambition Pride Rallies. It is one thing to admit that sin is committed, as it is committed by every single person alive; it is quite another thing to embrace sin, brag about sin, to make sin the center of one's life. I think that is why so much more attention is given to homosexuality over these other sins.
So you're saying that loving someone of the same sex is ok, religion wise, if you hide it?
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