Calidus wrote:PLAYER57832 wrote:This ruling does not stem from the Bible, from the teachings of Christ or even plain compassion. This ruling stems from a dogmatic and patriarchial system that, sadly, the Roman Catholic Church has too often shown itself to be. John Paul undid a lot of Roman Catholic harm, but this new guy.. takes the church back to places it never needed to be.
AND, this type of thing is precisely why so many of us are Protestant and NOT Roman Catholic.
Set aside the fact that even Roman Catholic doctrine allows procdures that harm a fetus to save the mother's life, that this ruling was made at the very time when we find out that the church not only looked aside and preached "forgiveness" to priests who repeatedly molested CHILDREN, effectively made the children victims of that heneous crime, driving them from the church.. this current church can have no other label than corruption. This ruling is blasphemy. I takes man's rules and tries to supplant GOD's rules because some human cannot fathom the realities of a life he will never, ever have to live or deal with in any true way.
This "Grinds my Gears" (Any Family Guy Fans?), the fact that you say a few thing here that I find completely false.
To start off, I am Catholic, and I believe there are some problems with the church in regards to some issues such as the child molestation. However I want to make something clear here. The reason that I believe abortion is such a big deal, is because you are basically playing God. You are deciding who dies and who doesn't. Also, I don't care if you are the Doctor of all doctors, you can only guess if giving birth will kill the mother or not. However, an abortion is 100% saying...you are going to kill a person, period.
We play God all the time, we challenge God every time we give our kids medicine, surgaries, etc. I am not a Christian Scientist, but at least they are consistant.
When you choose to play God, as modern medicine is, you don't just get to say "I will take the good and ignore all the negative consequences". In Christ's day they did not have children who's entire existance was to be tied to tubes and machines. They did not have children who woudl offer no response at all, except to keep breating. In Christ's day children did die. In Christ's day, they likely did bring children to get infected with some diseases, much like our grandparents did with measles, knowing that harm might well result, but that in the end, it would save the children from far worse. People of that day did not have to face the decisions we do, because ALL of the children would die. Many children we can cure as if it is nothing would have died or suffered horribly. Yet, there is a limit to those miracles. A limit and a responsibility. The Roman Catholic church wants to have it only one way. They try to claim that death is somehow "against God", even though God himself ordained that thing should die. God does NOT intervene many, many times.
The worst fate for anyone, child or adult is not to die, it is to live in constant suffering. You claim some moral high ground? What RIGHT do you have to so overlook God's will that you will claim these doctors, that nun had no right to intervene.
You have this illusion that everything always works out good. The real truth is that many times doctors CAN predict, with certainty that a child will die or that the mother will unless specific steps are taken. There are also cases where that is not true, but sometimes it is.
Calidus wrote:So, You say that the kids that have been desturbed by molesters can't be cured of the I admit very disturbing situation? AND you say that is worse than killing a baby (a life) that had no choice in the matter?
I say quite possibly, yes. A child not born stays with God. A child that is molested is likely to turn from God. I am not speaking esoterically here. I speak reality. But, the real argument is that this nun made a decision not to kill a child, but to save the mother. Had that mother died, the child would have as well. Were that not the case, were the child viable, then it would not have been abortion, it would be an emergency C-section.
Calidus wrote:Most women that I have talked to about abortion agree on the following. 1, The abortion process is probably just as disturbing as a molestation. I am a male, but regardless I have heard the stories of those who have gotten an abortion. Do you realize what the women are actually feeling, it's not as quick and painless as you might think it is.
Newsflash, I had one. The child was dead, but it was still called an abortion. I also have talked to more than a few women who have had them and I can gaurantee they were more forthright with me than they would be with any male.
But here is the thing. I DO NOT LIKE ABORTION. I do not agree it is OK, except in very limited circumstances. Saving the mother's life is one such limited circumstance. Even so, I would not tell that woman or her husband he had to take the child, but neither you nor anyone else has the right to decide for them. It is between the person and God, not anyone else, not any human here on Earth unless the person wishes to have that advice.
Calidus wrote:Also, it can lead to not being able to give birth anymore.
Yes, IF not performed correctly and in a small number of other cases. No sugery is without risk, but that is one very good reason why this procedure needs to be kept legal, so it can be done safely.
Calidus wrote:On top of that, most women experiance this "Sinking feeling", even if it takes many years to realize. They notice how aweful abortions are. However, once they realize the grace of God and admit the wrong doings, they themselves can be cured of this disturbing situation. Again, I can tell you that there is no way that a Baby can ever get help with an abortion, because they are dead.
Yes, and in this case the mother would have been dead. You live in fantasy, not reality. Reality is not always nice, it is gritty and sometimes pretty horrible. As for the Bible, many, many biblical scholars, clergy, etc disagree. That is reason enough to keep this decision in the realm of personal choice and not law. There is no mandate, despite what the Roman Catholic church wishes to dictate.
The Roman Catholic Church also claims that the Pope gets to decide who goes to heaven and who does not. I don't give him that authority, either.
Calidus wrote:I think the nun was pressured from the doctors around, who believed so much that the abortion was the right thing. The main thing is that, in no situation is it ok. I believe strongly that all women who give birth to a baby will recieve the grace of God. It doesn't matter if you were raped, OR if you die while giving birth - at least you are not a) playing God and b) deliberatley killing a person.
You have the right to believe this. You do not have the right to take that belief and expect that everyone else in the world must comply with your personnal belief.